A girl orgasms when the penis is in her vagina. Because when the penis is inside the vagina, it gets so excited and starts to have a lot of orgasms.
Penis: Since it was made to order for the purpose, it is definitely the thing women like more. It is the sign of masculinity which a woman craves for. After a good session of foreplay, when the vagina is properly lubricated and sexually stimulated, it is ready to be penetrated. A penis which enters then is literally at the right place and at the right time. It is intumescent, warm and pulsating and reaches the depth which a woman years for when in the mood.
More than the penis, it’s the whole act of pushing the whole body weight on her, thrusting in and out rapidly that completes the act. Personally, a penile penetration though more fulfilling is more taxing too. To achieve the proverbial g-spot, we try awkward positions, rapid strokes which hurt females. In case of a quickie for which everyone yearns once in a while, the foreplay is absent.
though it’s true that the vagina is always receptive and has a little secretion present all the time but at times it’s not enough. As we age, our vagina dries out despite being wider with experience and regular activity, similar is the case with youngsters. Sex often is painful as the vagina isn’t wide enough and also not lubricated enough.
Fingers: The very fact that there are 10 of them opens up so many possibilities. It’s more convenient in short but less wholesome. When not in the mood, it’s the way to satisfy your boyfriend/partner. but it has immense scope for playfulness. it requires no awkward positions, fingering can be done discreetly.
Though people won’t accept openly but there have been so many episodes of fingering in public places, it gives us a sense of sexual freedom. it makes us orgasm but fingers never give equivalent pleasure. I, for one, always insist on sex after fingering, if possible.
Also, as the vagina becomes receptive, the possibility of having more fingers inside just makes my heart leap with joy. but you need to guide your partner to avoid getting injured. I think, like oral sex if for the pleasure of males, being fingered is for the sole pleasure of females. My boyfriend always sulks when asked to as he doesn’t get to do anything.