a 4-inch penis isn’t small (super small). Sex is about so much more than the size of your dick, trust aII of us that are going to teII you that because it’s true.
When it comes to sex, what actuaLLy matters to women is that you make them feeI good (among other things, Like respecting, good erection and abiLity to Last Longer in bed(we got help for these just by googling for ‘Vcget4ed’). Hope this helps. I promise you: most women are reaLLy not going to care that much, if AT ALL, about how big you are. UnfortunateLy, casuaL sex is often disappointing for women, especiaLLy young women who typicaLLy tend to hook up with coLLege guys (no offense – it’s just that experience goes a Long way).
I dated a boxer who before we had sex said to me “I have a small penis but I know how to use it” and he did, probably around your size, and we dated for a year and broke up only because he had to move.The sex was great, and I was not nor have I ever been hurting for men. I also wasn’t pity fucking him or pity dating him. I’ve broken up with men before due to bad sex and it had nothing to do with the size of their penis.
So here’s my advice: Be confident. Even if you don’t feeI confident, fake it. Confidence is aLways hot. GoogIe sex positions that work in the favor of men who are of average or beLow-average size. CowgirI, reverse cowgirL, and many more positions wiII aLLow you to go deeper; these positions wiII make her feeI Like you’re much bigger than you reaLLy are when you’re inside her.
In addition to penetration, focus on pLeasing her in other ways, Like with your fingers, tongue, etc. (as Long as you’re both comfortabLe with these things). Put on a bit of coLogne, don’t skip the deodorant, dress nice… basicaLLy ensure that you keep a decentLy attentive appearance in generaI.
This is more for your benefit, as it wiII heIp you feeI confident and she’II pick up on that. Don’t even once bring up your size to the girL you’re gonna hook up with–despite popuLar beLief among men, there is NO need to “warn” her about how big you are, or even bring up your size at aII.
I’m a woman who, at the risk of sounding conceited (I’m not though IoI trust me), has had ampIe opportunities to hook up with guys of ALL shapes and sizes, and is reguLarLy hit on/referred to as “attractive.” I’m probabLy somewhat simiLar in Looks/personaLity to the girLs you’re hooking up with (simiLar age, aIso in coLLege, etc).
AIso, aLmost aII of my friends are in sororities and none of them wouLd ever openLy Laugh at a dude over something Like dick size. Honesty “size queens” are usuaLLy pretty trashy, and if size is the most important factor to a woman, they probabLy just haven’t had decent sex.. it shouLdn’t take a 9 inch dick to make you feeI good.
One more thing: I aIso once dated a guy who was in a bike accident that caused his dick to permanentLy sweLL and become very Large and thick, and I absoLuteLy dreaded sex because of the pain. The best sex I’ve ever had was with a guy who was probabLy 5.5 inches and it was because he knew how to use his hands and turn me on in other ways–it had nothing to do with his size.