When someone is not attracted to you sexually, they often exhibit clear behaviors that signal disinterest. Here are some simple signs to watch for:
1. Lack of Physical Touch
He avoids initiating or responding to physical contact. Hugs, holding hands, or even casual touches are minimal or absent.
2. Excuses to Avoid Intimacy
He consistently comes up with reasons to avoid being alone with you or engaging in intimate situations, like being “too tired” or “busy.”
3. Minimal Compliments About Your Appearance
If he rarely comments on your looks or downplays your efforts to look attractive, it might indicate a lack of sexual interest.
4. No Sexual Energy in Conversations
Conversations are friendly but lack flirtation, innuendos, or playful banter that typically show romantic or sexual attraction.
5. Prefers Group Settings Over Alone Time
He seems more comfortable hanging out in groups rather than one-on-one. This could suggest he doesn’t seek deeper physical or emotional connection.
6. Body Language Is Distant
He keeps physical distance, avoids eye contact during emotional moments, or sits with closed-off body language.
7. He Treats You Like a Friend
You might feel like he’s treating you more as a buddy or roommate than a romantic partner.
8. No Interest in Spontaneity
He doesn’t initiate surprises, date nights, or moments that could lead to intimacy.
9. Talks About Others Romantically
He discusses other people he finds attractive or openly flirts with others, signaling his attention might be elsewhere.
10. Sexual Activity Drops (if you’re in a relationship)
If you’re already together, a noticeable decline in sexual activity without explanation could be a sign.
What To Do:
If you notice these signs, communicate openly. Express your feelings and ask about his perspective. It’s important to clarify misunderstandings and determine if the relationship is fulfilling for both of you.
Let me know if you’d like tips on improving intimacy or sparking attraction!