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How does marriage counseling work under bad circumstances?

Involving a third object party who brings wisdom into the situation will always help; this assumes a good counselor. I have known many good, even gifted counselors, and I have known many terrible ones who frankly made the situation much worse.  So, getting the right counselor is critical. However, a good counselor will help create

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How does marriage counseling work under bad circumstances?

NO. Marriage counseling almost never works because by the time a couple seeks counseling they’re not looking to make it work anymore, they just want permission to divorce. They’ve already done everything they can think of, they now have an irreconcilable contempt for one another and they have to say they tried everything before they

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Under what circumstances would you stay in a sexless marriage?

My wife and I were naive virgins when we married on Thanksgiving of 1965 in the San Fernando Valley, Los Angeles, CA. We had a splendid and completely faithful sex life. As we got older and the plumbing worked less well, we used all the aids that medicine could deliver. Eventually, we both reached the

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What is the best figure size for women?

Here are the guidelines I got long ago when dinosaurs still roamed & I was young: Measure shoulders first. Hip measurement should be at least 1″ smaller than shoulder measurement. Waist should be about 12″ smaller than hip measurement. Breast measurement should be between 10″-12″ larger than waist measurement. Can’t remember what it was for

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