You eventually have to move beyond jokes and sexual banter. At some point you need to step up and own your own sexual desire for her. When you want to fully turn a girl on over text, start by telling her exactly how she makes you feel and what you want to do with her. Expressing your desire like this shows the confidence women want in a man and lets her know it’s okay for her to express her own sexual desires to you.
When you are expressing your sexual interest, desire, and fantasies it’s important to use descriptive language. Merely saying “I want to kiss you” can be a bland, dull statement. But if you start telling a girl how you want to pin her against the wall, slide your hand under her tight shirt, and gently tug her hair back as you nibble on her neck, that’s going to pack a bit more punch.
So right after that—If you want to get a sexual conversation going, a great tactic to try out is the Dirty Dream technique. You first text the girl telling her how you had the dirtiest dream about her last night. If you don’t yet have a strong connection with the girl, you can phrase it like “btw I had the dirtiest dream about you last night” or “OMG! I had the dirtiest dream about you last night!” Mentioning it in passing or adding elements that show you’re somewhat shocked it happened allows you to bring it up in a more casual way.