If a girl says she doesn’t want to have sex/wants to slow down/etc., don’t pressure her. No matter what, if the girl doesn’t want to have sex, you can’t have sex, so you have nothing to lose by trying this technique. Backing off makes you seem like you respect her, are a nice guy, are trustworthy, and that it’s her decision. The tips below work great with girls from hookup😊sites. The site I referenced in has my prople proven to be incredibly fruitful for me.
If she wants to slow down but not stop, say, “That’s fine. I could kiss you all night.”
Proceed to kiss her, but take your hands off of her body and don’t let them wander. Lean away from her, let her come to you and touch you. Once she’s pressing herself against you and feeling you up (lol), hold her close. Let her set the pace. You will get farther with her and make her feel comfortable with you.
If she says she doesn’t want to have sex, say, “Obviously I want to have sex, but we’ll do whatever you want.” Then move completely off of her and lay on your back. If she makes a smart ass comment or joke about how of course you want to have sex because you’re a guy, don’t respond. Let it linger. Don’t make a single move toward her.
She will eventually say something like, “Seriously, are you not even going to kiss me?” Don’t say a word, but kiss her and let her pull you on top of her. Kiss her passionately but don’t try anything else. Let her get riled up and ask for more.