Short answer: Not only is it fine, I believe you should.
I completely believe that you should have sex before marriage. At a minimum, at least with the person you plan on marrying.
Because what if you don’t jive? Because what if they have no desire to give you pleasure?
Because what if they don’t wipe their ass well?
And, sure, it’s easy for some to say things like, “But I don’t care if the sex is good, I’ll love them forever…”
That’s fine.
Whatever.
But you want to know the secret to a long, happy marriage?
It’s not being a virgin when you’re married, it’s connecting in the bedroom and having some kick ass sex on the regular.
It’s knowing that your partner can and will and wants to take care of your needs and vice versa.
It’s knowing that at least when the rest of the world is falling apart, that “in the good times and in the bad,” when nothing else is working, that in the bedroom, you can forget all that and get lost in one another’s arms.
It’s knowing that you can not only love your partner with your mind and with your heart, but with your body as well.
And besides all that lovey-dovey bullshit, having sex before your wedding leads to a much more enjoyable wedding night. Instead of worrying about what will be, you’ll be able to look forward to what’s to come.