My wife and I were naive virgins when we married on Thanksgiving of 1965 in the San Fernando Valley, Los Angeles, CA. We had a splendid and completely faithful sex life. As we got older and the plumbing worked less well, we used all the aids that medicine could deliver.
Eventually, we both reached the point where medical science had nothing left to deliver as far as sex. We are still married. We are still happy. We are still together. We are not going to kill ourselves or leave each other.
This just needed to be said. I do not usually pimp for upvotes, but I hope their are some other people out there who can deal with growing up and having productive and joyful lives when sex is no longer physically possible.
Get a life. Keep a life.