Stomach is always pending. I give women who have children a lot of kudos for getting into their pre-figure or those who struggle with their weight, but are trying to make an effort.
Genetics in men to see “hips” and “curves” and a nice “proportion” of fat and weight that represents what we consider healthy in a woman.
And now I leave you with what certain media is trying to get men to be attracted to — but genetics tell us: no.
Don’t get me wrong. If you do look like that, you can still get a man. You will just have a bit of a harder time doing that. I am not here to fat shame, so please, any woman who comes across this and is offended: do not be mad at me. I am simply stating that the majority of men are attracted to “healthy looking women” because in our minds: it represents someone who can “keep up with us”, someone who cares enough to take care of themselves, someone who is trying, and someone who is physically fit to actually be a mother and a partner. To simply say, “Oh well, I’m fat, deal with it.” You have to do that, honey.