My wife just confessed to me she does not feel a sexual attraction to me. We’ve been married for 3 years and together for over 11 years. Our initial relationship we had sex often and she seemed entirely into me.
But honestly there was a steady decline in her attitude towards it. This confession came after a very long dry spell where the only times we had sex felt completely forced on her part. If she hadn’t said something tonight I was going to confront her soon.
I asked her if it is just something to do with me, she said no. But when I asked more questions she admitted she feels a sexual attraction in her romance novels and also said she had a sex dream about her friend(female) recently.
I had felt this coming for a while but now that it’s finally here I have no idea what to do. She thinks it might be just in her head and she’s the problem. She cried a lot and I know she truly loves me and I truly love her. I have no idea what to do. One of my worst nightmares just came true and I never in a million years thought this could happen.
tl;dr No idea what to do after my wife says she’s not attracted to me and may never have been.